I had an appointment with a friend and 'was waiting for him at a common place. After crossing 30 minutes of the schedule, I had no clue of the person coming to the venue. So I have called that person. He did not pick his call. After crossing 60 minutes of the schedule, I called him. He picked the call and said that he got some domestic work at home and willing to meet next week. Even before, I say something, he has disconnected the call. The person whom I am referring is a respected person in an organization, where around 100 to 150 people reporting under him and follow him as a role model. I was quiet disappointed about the person behaviour, based on the points mentioned below.
(1) He did NOT honour the appointment, which he has committed. This means, he is NOT responsible for his statement itself.
(2) In case if he is not coming, then should have called and informed the same, but he did not do the same. This means, he is NOT respecting others time. Whereas, the other person has respected his statement & waiting.
(3) Since not responded by picking the call, shows, he does not own the committed decision and behaviour.
(4) On the second call, does not even show courtesy of apologies, for NOT coming and NOT responding, instead he says he cannot make it up today(after delay of 1 hours, that too as a response to the incoming call NOT as a outgoing call) and willing to meet next week. Its shows very rude behaviour.
(5) Even before, I say something, He has disconnected the call, without showing the decency.
People having this sort of behaviour shows their quality of value system. By using this value system, people set-up their character. People of these character, looks like they are growing-up and enjoying better life, because of time NOT because their quality, character, and charisma.
Life set-up based on the time, bound to change, but the life built of based on genuine character, value system, quality and charisma....bound to go, grow, and glow upwards.
Please cultivate, share, teach, good value systems to self, kids, and others. Thanks.
